Friday Slideshow

I took a number of pictures on Friday at dad’s nursing home in Soda Springs. I put them into a slideshow which is kind of fun. The problem is that the slideshow is pretty large (34 megabytes) and everything I’ve tried to do to slim it down just makes it bigger (and blurrier). So, this is it! It plays in RealPlayer, in QuickTime, or in several other players except for Windows Media Player. To download and play, click here. It’ll take a bit to download.

Jared flew back to Seattle yesterday morning. His flight back was a bit less complicated than his flight here. You can’t get to Pocatello by air without first flying to Salt Lake City. The reverse is true as well. You can’t get by air anywhere else from Pocatello unless you fly to Salt Lake City first. He says his flights were uneventful and he arrived back home with no issues. It was fun having him here … and he shows up in a few frames of the slideshow.

Dawnmarie and Nina have gone shopping this morning leaving me here at home with a little time to catch up on some digital things. All is well.

A Very Big Surprise

There was no way we could have known beforehand. It couldn’t have been planned better. Dawnmarie really pulled off a good one today.

Nina, Jared, and I had decided to go to Lava Hot Springs and soak in the hot mineral pools this afternoon. We left about 2 p.m. and arrived about a half-hour later. As we pulled into the parking spot across the street from the pools, Nina’s iPhone rang. It was Dawnmarie. The conversation was actually a bit comical. Nina was trying to end the conversation because we were just getting out of the car, but Dawnmarie just kept talking. I looked towards the sidewalk and there was a woman who looked just like Dawnmarie walking down towards us, talking on her cell phone. I pointed her out and said to Nina, “I think that’s someone we know.” Nina looked and suggested a name of someone we knew in Colorado Springs.

It just wasn’t computing that our daughter Dawnmarie would be walking down the street towards us in Lava Hot Springs, Idaho!

But, it was. That was really fun. And we’ve been talking and talking ever since. Dawnmarie will be here probably until Tuesday. She flies back to Pennsylvania Wednesday morning.

She arrived yesterday evening in Salt Lake, rented a car, and drove as far as Lava Hot Springs and spent the night. Then she went on to Soda Springs to surprise mother and dad (and succeeded). My favorite brother Perry and his wife Chris (also a favorite) were at mother’s when Dawnmarie rang the doorbell. Chris let her in wondering who this person was. Perry recognized her and was quite surprised to see her. He then got on Yahoo Instant Messenger with me wanting to know what our plans were for the day. We chatted for a bit and I let him know about our plans for Lava Hot Springs. He kind of intimated that he and Chris might come over, all the while feeding the info to Dawnmarie so she could meet us there and spring the next part of her surprise.

So, all three of our daughters have been here in the past week along with Jared. Our son James and his family were here a couple of weeks ago. We are definitely basking in the joy of spending time with our kids and their families.

A little bit ago mother called. She couldn’t wait any longer to find out how the surprise went in Lava Hot Springs. She was very pleased to have been in on that part of the conspiracy.

Tomorrow morning Jared flies back home to Seattle. I’ve so enjoyed having him visit and will miss him when he’s gone. We have some outstanding children.

Life is definitely very good.

Ten Things Tuesday

In the past while I’m seeing more and more people I follow in the blogging world (sometimes called the blogosphere) putting together lists of things in their blogs. Jeff Barr, an Amazon guy who works and promotes Amazon Web Services, publishes a list of links to items that interested him. Lorelle VanFossen writes about the blogging software I’m using (WordPress) and every post seems to have a list of related articles. These are just a couple of examples.

Then a month or so ago, lists of things started circulating on Facebook. I would write a list and then “tag” a number of my “friends” to do the same. I enjoyed reading these lists from my friends and relatives on Facebook and learning more about them. My blog is linked to Facebook, so anything I write here also gets sucked into my Facebook page and available to those who only have contact with me through that medium.

So, I’ve decided to try out a new meme: Ten Things Tuesday. I’m going to comment about a list on Tuesdays of ten random things. There’s no particular subject or theme, just a list of thoughts. Feel free to comment (particularly if I don’t somehow make this a regular thing on Tuesdays). So, here’s today’s TripleT:

1. I’ve really found Pandora Internet Radio to be just to my liking for music. It works very nicely on my iPhone, and since the iPhone understands wifi, I’m seen all too often walking around the house with my headset on listening to my favorite music streamed to my iPhone from Pandora. We are just at the beginning of the capabilities and benefits of ubiquitous and continuous connectivity and I look forward with great anticipation to what will be available to me in the next five years.

2. The economy has really tanked our 401(k) savings. The amount of money that has “disappeared” from the account has become quite depressing. However, there is one interesting bright spot. We’ll be in the market by next week for a car to replace Nina’s Camry. I’ve been looking at various websites with helps on how to negotiate a good deal with a car salesman and all indicators are that they are more desperate to sell me something than I am to buy something. I don’t know what we’ll be buying as we don’t have the disposition from the insurance adjuster yet. I guess if I needed to be in the market for an automobile, now’s the right time.

3. In reading the advertisements in the want ads from our local paper I’ve noticed that almost all the cars for sale are American made. There are very few foreign used cars for sale and what there are seem to be from the Korean manufacturers. Nina’s Toyota Camry was the best car we’ve ever owned. There was nothing fancy or sexy about the car … it just ran and ran and ran and required nothing more than routine oil changes. It had about 180,000 miles on it at the time of the accident and was definitely good for another fifty thousand or more. From the newspaper ads, people don’t have that much confidence in their American made vehicles.

4. One of the difficulties about where we live are the limited shopping and eating options available to us. The Sportsman’s Warehouse here in town announced yesterday that they are closing. This store is only about a year old and has been doing well. However, the chain isn’t able to get enough of a line of credit to keep all of their stores stocked with inventory. Consequently, the’re closing a number of stores to be able to concentrate on stocking a fewer number of stores. This is not good news for our fair city. Not only will sixty people be out of a job, but they were a pretty unique store and alternative places to buy the same merchandise is very limited. They will definitely be missed.

5. A Harvard Business School professor who I follow on Twitter recently lost a bet of some sort for which he had to send out 100 tweets on Twitter. Andrew McAfee took the opportunity to send out several lists of things. One of those was a list of 20 great poems available online. I read all of them and they were all interesting, some were just plain outstanding. A couple of those were “What the Uneducated Old Woman Told Me” and ”Orpheus and Eurydice” and ”Gravy” (this last might be of interest to my cousin Ted Larsen who is celebrating his 36th wedding anniversary today … alone … as his wife died from cancer a couple of years ago). Some of the poems I had seen before but most were new to me. I gained a new appreciation for poetry from Dr. McAfee’s list. I’m continually amazed by what I learn on Twitter.

6. Along the same lines, another Twitter friend about whom I’ve written before, PJ Rangaswami, started a blog entry by quoting a person’s depiction of Hamlet as though it came through in real time as little status updates in the Facebook newsfeed (Rangaswami’s post is well worth the read). Before reading his post, I had been thinking about a person living in Pocatello who I follow on Twitter. That person (who for now shall remain un-named) is rather prolific and definitely lives in a different world and lifestyle than I live. I enjoy this look into that person’s life and have thought it would be interesting to assemble all of the tweets into one place as it would be a fascinating story … even though that person thinks they have no meaning, no beauty, and are completely uninteresting. There are actually very few uninteresting people in this world. My tweets are not nearly so interesting, I fear.

7. My daughter from Arizona and her three boys are on their way here after spending a couple of days with our daughter in North Salt Lake. The Arizona daughter definitely has not missed the snow or cold weather since she moved to Chandler and has been kind of delaying her drive here because of the weather. However, as the day has progressed, the weather has gotten worse here. Yesterday the Salt Lake Valley got a lot of snow … we got a light dusting. We were not supposed to have any snow today, but maybe because the Arizona daugher is driving up here the weather karma has answered. Hopefully they’ll all arrive safely and without incident. As the week progresses, another son arrives tomorrow evening, and the North Salt Lake daughter and family come up on Friday. This will be a great week.

8. A couple of weeks ago I saw a short Request for Proposal to build a website for the City of Georgetown, Idaho. I decided to respond and have won the contract. The work is well underway and will be finished in a couple of weeks. When it’s finished, Georgetown will be one of the most “21st electronic century” connected city in southeastern Idaho. What they wanted and how it’ll be delivered is a good subject for a future blog entry. I’m excited to be a part of their entry into the 21st electronic century. Two months ago they didn’t even have an email account or an Internet connection in City Hall.

9. In a few minutes I’ll be leaving for my weekly Rotary Club meeting. This is the newest of four Rotary Clubs in Pocatello and meets in the late afternoon at 5:15 p.m. until about 6:15 p.m. The meeting time is inconvenient, but the association with the other members, being involved in growing a new organization, and the weekly programs are enough to keep me going every week. Rotary International is a great organization and has done outstanding service in providing clean water as well as in irradicating polio.

10. In the future I’ve got to figure out how to make a brief list. This one certainly doesn’t meet that criteria!

What’s Good News Around Here?

In a few minutes Nina and I will go make the beds. Our niece Ashlyn was here for a couple of days (long enough to get quite a ride in the car … but that’s a story for Nina to tell) so that’s one bed. We also turned our mattress today, so all of that bedding has been washed and hung outside to dry as well. It’ll sure smell nice in the 4 minutes it’ll take me to go to sleep tonight. But making beds isn’t much that would be considered to be “news”, just part of life going on as normal.

My friend Duane is making a good recovery and can now work the keyboard with two hands. That’s news, but not from around here!

I am really enjoying Pandora Internet Radio. Just send your browser to Pandora.com and do a free registration. I’m now getting only the music I want to hear. I’ve set up a couple of stations and chose depending on my mood. I expect that streaming music over the Internet is the future for music. Pandora is not necessarily anything of significance but it is a good recommendation in any case.

One of the blogs I read regularly is “Confused of Calcutta“. JP Rangaswami is very articulate and always interesting. Except when he’s writing about Cricket (a unintelligible game to me), his stuff is stimulating and sticks around in my head for quite a while. He wrote a post today about the enormous benefit of recommendations over critiques and criticism. He puts into words some thoughts I’ve been mulling around in my head for a while. For instance:

I want the people I trust to tell me what’s good, not what’s bad. Telling me what’s bad is easy, everyone does it. The scarcity that I’m prepared to pay for is to be found in the good things, in the people who can tell me about good things.

Too much of what passes for “news” today results from the race to report the worst of the bad. Each report seems to try and trump the previous item … whatever you said, I’ve found something (smaller, bigger, nastier, dirtier, crazier, stupider….). I’m tired of that. I’m tired of people looking for (and usually finding) the worst in everything.

There’s a lot of good news out there. We had a normal day. That’s good news. We had a fun time at a Stake Ice Cream Social tonight. That is good news. We’re preparing for a Sabbath day tomorrow where we’ll hear once again about the “good news”. We’ve got a lot of family coming here next week. That is excellent news.

Nina and Ashlyn are well and suffered no ill effects (from the story that is Nina’s to tell … watch her blog!). That is fabulous news.

There’s plenty of good news and to spare. Let’s share the wealth. Life is good in Pocatello.

How To Be “Young at Heart”

Duane
Duane

Yesterday I got an email from my excellent friend Duane in Colorado Springs:

ROLAND…

DISLOCATED MY SHOULDER TODAY AT SCHOOL.  TYPING ONE-HANDED…
THE PITS

DCS

Duane just turned 72. Rather than retiring and playing, he’s been a substitute teacher and a tutor in Colorado Springs for the past ten years. It won’t be long until he probably can claim another retirement check! So, I responded:

That’s got to hurt big time!! What were you doing to dislocate your shoulder? Trying to tag one of the kids at dodgeball??

Thinking about you … and trying not to giggle too much!
Roland

As you might notice in Duane’s blog (he’s a great blogger and writes just about every day), he sometimes has days where the kids try to take on the substitute teacher. I had visions of him dislocating his shoulder throwing an eraser or something. I was wrong. At 4:35 this morning he sent me the following:

IT HURT BIG TIME.  I WAS GOING INTO SHOCK AND ALMOST PASSED OUT WHILE IN E.R.  THAT IS WHEN THEY DECIDED TO GIVE ME SOME MORPHINE.  GOOD THING BOBBIE WAS WITH ME.  I DIDN’T USE ANY BAD WORDS.

I WAS LEARNING TO ROLLERBLADE WITH KIDS.  THEY WANTED US TO LEARN HOW TO FALL CORRECTLY.  I’M A SLOW LEARNER   NO PAIN NOW, BUT I’M TIED DOWN, AT LEAST ON THE RIGHT SIDE.  GOOD THING I’M LEFT-HANDED.

GIGGLE AWAY, YOU MEAN OLE FRIEND.  ITS 4;30 A.M AND I COULDN’T LAY THERE ANYMORE.  I’M OFF TO SCHOOL AT 7;30 THIS MORNING.

DCS

That’s right. He was learning how to fall while rollerblading. I’m impressed. At least they gave him good drugs….

Nice, Quiet Saturday Evening

A couple of days ago I was talking with our Home Teacher about when we might get together for our monthly visit. He and his wife, in addition to being our good friends, are also assigned as our Home Teachers. We decided because the only time available was the last day of the month, that we would go out to dinner together and have a fun evening together. They picked us up a little after 5 p.m. and we went to the new Ruby Tuesday restaurant for dinner. And we had a Very.Lovely.Time! They are fun to be with, the restaurant is quite conducive to having a conversation, and the food is great. I had the most delicious lobster ravioli and will definitely have to go back there to do that one again. I think I’ve found the absolute celestial marriage of pasta and lobster….

Earlier this morning we drove over to Soda Springs to spend some time with mother and dad at the nursing home. Dad had a good day, I think. Nina brought lunch so we had his lunch brought out to the table in the famiy area and we all had lunch together. I had brought a hardware and tools catalog which dad enjoyed looking at (and will probably spend some time studying). Nina really got him laughing and hopefully she’ll post some pictures.

The stats also say that he’s doing OK. He’s nicely hydrated and is eating well. He’s not having trouble eliminating. His vitals are in good shape. According to the chart he’s having a very typical rebound which happens to most people when they first get into the nursing home. He’s definitely rebounded, which is a marked change from when he went into the emergency room three weeks ago and the doctor told us that he could easily pass away at any moment. That danger is past. He will not get into a position that he can go home as he’s still quite unstable and lacks the strength to get himself from sitting to standing and back down. He also cannot get himself up when he falls on the floor.

It’s fairly typical for a nursing home patient to rally after they’re admitted. Their getting a better diet, a much more regimented atmosphere, plenty of fluids, and physical therapy tailored to their situation. If that rally happens, then they’ll probably do well until another episode, which often is brought about by a cold or the flu. If that degenerates into pneumonia, then things can get very bad very quickly.

The charts also say that he’s good to stay under Medicare for at least another three weeks. So we’ve got a little more time before the financial situation changes.

Life is good!

Update on Dad’s Condition

Family Room at the Nursing Home
Family Room at the Nursing Home
Nina and I spent a few hours with dad and mother at the nursing home yesterday. Dad seems to be rallying a bit and his condition continues to improve somewhat. He’s gotten also a bit ornery. He has begun to insist on going home. Unfortunately that’s not going to happen. He cannot stand up by himself and most of the time when he tries, he falls backwards into the chair (or if the chair isn’t locked down, onto the floor). He occasionally is successful in getting himself partially out of bed and then falls the rest of the way out onto the floor. Once he’s on the floor, two people are required to get him back upright.

This is the main reason that he’s at the nursing home. Mother cannot get him upright when he falls on the floor. She doesn’t have the strength to be able to help him transition to his walker from the toilet. If he gets even slightly out of his center-of-gravity balance area, he’s on the floor.

Meanwhile, his color is back to normal. His vital signs are pretty good: blood pressure fairly constant in the 100 / 60 range and pulse rate in the high 70’s. His temperature is normal and his blood sugar ranges from 80 to 130, all of which are certainly very acceptable. For a while his blood pressure was continuing to decrease, but the doctor has modified his medications and the blood pressure has stabilized.

He has very little strength in his legs, but when the physical therapist works with him and coaches him through the process of standing (all the while keeping a firm grip on him), dad can often get himself into a standing position from his wheel chair. Unaided and unguided, however, he fails every time.

It’s no mystery why he wants to go home. He seems to have no life anymore. There’s so much that he still wants to do. But, his body cannot keep up with his brain. Getting old sucks!

Visiting with Dad and Mother

Nina and I drove over to Soda Springs today to visit with dad and work with mother on anything she needs done. Dad was up and getting around fairly well. He’s somewhat confused about time and people but I’m sure it’s easy to mix dreams and reality in this place. We’ll be here through mid-afternoon.